A note to self 2.0

Dear Hui Ling,

It is okay to be impulsive once in a while. It is okay to make mendable mistakes. It is okay to feel like you are out of control, in fact, learn to be comfortable with the uncomfortable. Growth is when you feel out of control initially and then slowly regain the upperhand. 

Don't beat yourself up for things that you can't change. Heads up and look forward. Focus on finding solutions, focus on opening up different pathways for yourself, focus on growth, focus on learning, focus on becoming a better person. Focus on things you can control, rather than those that you can't. 

And remember that for every single opportunity you encounter, try your best to tap on all of them because each of them will more often than not be a space for you to learn and to grow. 

Be kind to yourself and don't be so critical of yourself. Your older self will thank you for that.

Heart strong and Mind stronger. 

Take heart,

Hui